Femdom

Women have come a long way since the World War 2. Women used to have to stay at home and do house chores, but things have change since then. Now, women are allowed to work and they are now on par with men. Women prove themselves to have the same abilities and efficiency as men, and no one can tell them what they can and cannot do anymore. Sexual revolutions evolve as women’s roles changes as well, although it’s a little slower.

In the bedroom, women can now practice Female Domination. Now, what is female domination? Female domination, also known as Femdom, is the celebration of the feminine power and the power that women have when men act like ‘slaves’ to them. It is not just the outside that matters; it’s the confidence that a woman has. It does not matter if a woman dresses in a super tight latex dress, it’s the confidence and charisma that makes a men want to be dominated by a woman that is important.

When a woman is dominating, she is called a mistress. Different people have different ideas about what a mistress is. A mistress is not a feminist. She does not want to correct the mistakes that men made. Instead, she has a deep understanding of the natural female power. She can come from anywhere – a normal housewife, a receptionist, a college student, or even a professional dominatrix. They come from different background, and are slowing gaining in number.

There are reasons for the growing number of Femdoms. One of the most common causes revolves around the role of men and the part they play in a relationship. It is said that male are so tired of the responsibility put upon them for them to be manly or macho that they are finding ways to diminish their power. So, it is natural that women filled the role of being the more powerful one.

Now that you know what femdom is, what if you want to practice it? Here are some tips for you. First of all, research about the topic if you are not familiar with it. There are a lot of articles online where you can check what the buzz about female domination is about. By researching, you know what to expect and know how to treat your partner right.

You must know what your approach is. You can be the cold, distant bitch who thinks they are superior to men or a warm, cuddly woman who often punishes her ‘slaves’. You must be comfortable with your approach, and different things turn different men on.

Learn to accept your flaws; if you don’t, how can a man be bothered to be your sub? If you made a mistake in the way you act, apologize. This can make you a better dominant as well, and you can earn the respect of your sub.


Does your house or bedroom have space for you to play? It does not have to be a full out dungeon; as long as it’s enough for you and your partner, it should not be a problem. Make sure the space is equipped as well. Prepare first aid kits – things could get a little bloody and your toys if you want to use them. If you use toys, you might want to know how they function. Practice more with your toys to get the best possible effects.

Besides that, you can have a title that you like for your sub to call you. For example, you can ask him to call you ‘Ma’am’ or ‘Lovely Goddess’; whatever strikes your fancy. However, this does not really matter as you can ask him to not call you anything and it’s up to your preference.

It’s also important to remember both of you are humans, and humans have moods. If either one of you is in a bad mood, forget about female domination. Just cuddle and talk with each other. This is a good way to maintain your relationship and respect each other. You can save your fetishes for next time when both of you are into it.

Furthermore, know what you want in your sub. Do you want a relationship for just a fling? Be realistic about what you want, and don’t give your sub any false hope or unrealistic views about your relationship. You should ask him what he wants out of you as well.

Not only that, it is important to know both his and your limits. Talk to your partner and let him tell you your limits and what he will and will not do. Knowing all these facts make sure you will not cross the limits as well. Just as he has boundaries, you have boundaries too. If you don’t like to do something, such as toilet play, let him know and be firm. This way, both of you will know not to cross the borders. If he says that he has no limits and is willing to do whatever you want, it may be because he is not aware of reality and he does not have enough experience. Test him and get an answer out of him to be sure, so that you do not pass his limits.

You should also let your sub know how you want him to be. Do you want him to be a pretty boy or a sissy? A sissy is a man who longs to be woman and loves to cross-dress. If you prefer a sissy and he do not mind becoming one, then train him and tell him what to do!

Also, set some rules between you and your partner. Let the rules be short and simple, as too many can confuse your sub. If he breaks the rules, you can break off the relationship with him, or coyly punish him with the female domination role you are playing.

So, it is interesting to explore and experience new things. It is also important to respect each other and not treat your partner as weak just because he is your submissive. Remember, it takes a lot of willpower and strength for him to let you dominate him. Also, do not be a fake, as people can see right through you. There is no faking that confidence, intelligence, and charisma. If femdom is not for you, tell your partner that and do not let him force you into it.